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Implicit Theories of Relationships: Who Cares if Romantic Partners Are Less than Ideal?
C. Raymond Knee
University of Houston, knee{at}uh.edu
Aruni Nanayakkara
University of Houston
Nathaniel A. Vietor
University of Houston
Clayton Neighbors
University of Houston
Heather Patrick
University of Houston
Perceived discrepancy between ones ideal and actual partner has been shown to predict relationship satisfaction. The goal of two studies was to examine whether implicit theories of relationships moderate this association. In Study 1, data from 177 undergraduates in romantic relationships showed that the perception that ones partner falls short of ones ideal was generally linked to lower satisfaction, except under cultivation (high growth/low destiny). In Study 2, data from 61 couples showed (a) viewing ones partner favorably was associated with more satisfaction but less so among those who were higher in growth belief; and (b) cultivation predicted increased positivity, whereas evaluation (high destiny/low growth) predicted increased hostility when discussing discrepancies in how they and their partner view the relationship. Results are discussed in terms of the controversy over idealization and authenticity in romantic relationships.
Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, Vol. 27, No. 7,
808-819 (2001)
DOI: 10.1177/0146167201277004

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